Class Video: "Building Connections: How to Be A Relationship Ninja | Rosan Auyeung-Chen | TEDxSFU"

Video link: Building Connections: How to Be A Relationship Ninja | Rosan Auyeung-Chen | TEDxSFU


Being in my first year of year of college, making connections is a big part of my life right now. It's my first time living away from my family, my first time at such a big school, and my first time not being constantly surrounded by people I'm close to and comfortable with. So when I first got here, I was immediately confronted by the importance of learning to make connections or else my next four years would be really lonely.

Unfortunately, I'm not very good at making connections. I'm really shy and introverted and insecure and I tend to get anxious and overwhelmed during social situations. So watching this video was actually quite helpful to me, as Rosan Auyeung-Chen was able to give me some decent insight and advice on the process of making connections.

That being said, I would disagree with the idea that there's a step-by-step instructional process for making connections. Auyeung-Chen's points were certainly important aspects of making connections, but at the end of the day I think that we're all incredibly different people and we all connect with each other in different ways.

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